“Have you ever wondered just how much courage it takes to tell your story? Recounting the trauma often means reliving the trauma – and that makes the courage and generosity of our My Story, My Time advocates even more remarkable. In the second of a series of videos designed to help inform and educate about … Continue reading Courage →

Oooops we’re pregnant! Then the next question is are you married? Have you heard of this before? I have heard of this many times. Look, it would be lovely if we lived in a perfect world whereby you get married, have a big greek fat wedding, nine months after the honeymoon you are pregnant, you … Continue reading Forced marriage because of unplanned pregnancy! →

#thankyou In Shona, we say: ‘Kusatenda huroyi’ meaning “To not express gratitude is witchcraft.” Thank you for supporting my #book and #ebook Greener Pastures beyond Mt.Abuse and the speaking engagements in 2021.

Hello it’s me your girl Tinashe La back with a bang. Thank you so much to everyone who has visited the website, purchased a copy of my book Greener Pastures beyond Mt.Abuse, contributed to my blogs and given me words of encouragement. As I work towards finishing my Master’s in Counselling this year you might … Continue reading Hello 2022 →

Last #blog post of 2021…. We are living in times where you can easily feel some sense of loneliness and emptiness due to lockdowns and separations. Having said that there are many opportunists out there who come out dressed as spiritual gurus. They know people are vulnerable and desperate so…..

We often hear this question, why doesn’t she leave? Because she was groomed to #fear almost anything, anyone and everything. When you are taught from a very young age it grows with you too I am sure my book Greener Pastures beyond Mt.Abuse is a testament to that. I endeavour to inspire a generation of #fearless … Continue reading The power of FEAR →

Doctor Google dictionary says entitlement is, “the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.” This is a topic I have been wanting to talk and write about for a while and today is the day. After dropping my husband at the airport I got home to this beautiful WhatsApp message. Personally, … Continue reading ENTITLEMENT! →

Time for some #selfreflection and #selfawareness What are your intentions in giving this Christmas? Why are you giving this Christmas? Do those people you’re giving use those gifts? Do they truly appreciate your gifts or its all pretense? Could it be you’re wasting your time and money and energy? It’s the issue of the heart. … Continue reading Giving and Christmas →